Friday, 16 October 2015

fear for...?




                                           



Hello my dear friends ,how are you all ?hope doing good. well friends today I am going to tell you that how to improve  English speaking.  in today's life  English is very important  to be successful. it doesn't matter either you are doing any government job or any business. if you really want to achieve the pinnacle of the success then you have to be perfect in English. we all want to achieve our dream as fast as possible we don't want any dater any barrier in that way right?
                                                         and friends i would like to tell you that nothing is impossible in this world . you can get everything whatever you want but at the same time you should make sure that you are giving your 100% .without giving your best how can you get best thing in your life?
the same rule apply with English speaking. First of all keep one thing in your mind that English is the easiest language in the world.so why we cant learn it ?why we feel scare with it? have you ever think about it?

and how  can we overcome our English speaking fear ? so first of all we will try to find out the reasons behind the fear ..
whenever we try to speak English some thoughts always comes in our mind like...
  1. no one will understand me.
  2. people will laugh on me.
  3. what the others will think about me if I will be wrong?
  4. other speak better than me.
  5. I am a looser.
  6. why I am wasting my time I will never be able to speak English.
  7. just give up.
  8. I want to be disappear.
  9. he or she is younger than me and speaking fluently.
  10. I am intelligent.
  11. I am dumb
  12. others are more intelligent than me.
  13. why they are gazing me?
  14. am I looking fool?
  15. I don't want people to make my fun so it will be better to hide myself.
  16. inhibition
  17. use of mother tongue 
so now you all think for a while about all these points. Read and count how many points are matching  with your thinking? do you really feel these are the obstacles in the way of your speaking and accomplish your dream ?
OK then now we will try to find out the solutions of this problem and will know how to overcome on this fear.



  1. practice:- just put away your all fear about your English speaking  as much as you can, practice recording your voice or making videos, speaking in front of the mirror or while taking a shower, using English on a daily basis makes the language a habit, the confidence comes with practice.


2. Improve your vocabulary;-everyday you need to improve your  vocabulary and to improve it you have to write all new words that you are learning daily in your class or anywhere just make a notebook and write all words on it and make sure you will go through these words twice in a day. it will help you a lot and don't forget  to use these words in your speaking


3.dream big;- never think small always think big and dream big. when you will think in this way you can defeat your fear easily and speaking will not be  the obstacle any more in front  of your success.







4. motivate yourself:-its not necessary to be motivated by the others all the time. sometimes you should be motivated by yourself instead of looking at others faces. Tell yourself yes I can do it, nothing is impossible in this world. and as I told you English is the easiest language among all.

5. don't feel shy:- first off all  just remove this  word "shy" from your life. what is the need of being shy..han? we all are learners you me and everyone. have you ever seen any person who is perfect and have no need of learning?  you cant find such person.this certified that everyone has need of improvement so don't feel shy while you speaking.

6.speak more:-sometimes because of your week English , wrong pronunciation, and less vocabulary  you prefer to be quiet and somehow you try to make yourself as a taciturn but this is not the correct way.if you really want to learn English then you have to speak more and more without thinking whether what the others are thinking.

so my dear all friends this is the right time to change yourself and to be confident and just follow these tips witch will help you definitely.

 Be happy and be calm
madhu bala
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